I’m Praising God and Thanking You!
Different Like Me (Our Daily Bread Publishing, August 2020) is a 2021 ECPA Christian Book Award® Finalist in the Children’s book category.
To God be the glory, the honor, and the praise, praise, praise!
The Evangelical Christian Publishers Association is an “international non-profit trade organization comprised of member companies that are involved in the publishing and distribution of Christian content worldwide. Since 1974, ECPA has strengthened Christian publishing by building networking, information, and advocacy opportunities within the industry and throughout multiple channels so that our members can more effectively produce and deliver transformational Christian content.”
“The Christian Book Award® program recognizes the highest quality in Christian books and Bibles and is among the oldest and most prestigious awards program in the religious publishing industry. Presented annually to the finest in Christian publishing since 1978, the Christian Book Award® program honors the best of the year in twelve categories.”
Different Like Me is one of the five children’s book finalists. Hallelujah!
I would like to thank all of the ECPA and Christian Book Award members who organized and participated in the selection process, as well as those who are faithfully serving in various roles within these organizations each year.
I’m excited to announce that my mentor and friend Crystal Bowman, the author of I Love You to the Stars: When Grandma Forgets, Love Remembers, is also a finalist in this category.
Praise the Lord!
Crystal wrote a beautiful endorsement for Different Like Me and has offered me wise counsel, encouragement, and prayers as I continue following God’s leading through the wonderful world of children’s book writing.
I’m thanking the Lord for every person who helped me prepare Different Like Me to be placed into the hands of readers.
Special thanks to Bonnie Lui, the amazing illustrator who put the heartbeat in Different Like Me, to my Our Daily Bread Publishing family, and to my Credo family.
I’m grateful for every book reviewer, bookstore, public and church library, teacher, children’s ministry leader, nursery leader, little free library steward, and patron of the arts.
Thanks for helping me spread the word about Different Like Me on your social media pages, for writing reviews on Amazon and any other platforms you enjoy, and for loving your neighbors by ordering extra copies of Different Like Me to share with God’s little image-bearers.
Please continue helping me spread the word about Different Like Me by sharing photos on your social media pages, writing reviews, letting people know what you enjoyed about the book, and considering Different Like Me whenever you need a gift for a little one.
Every review makes a difference and helps place Different Like Me in front of potential readers.
The Children’s Book Award® ceremony will be hosted by Max Lucado on May 6, 2021 at 1 pm Central (11 am Pacific).
I’ll share an update on my blog and on social media as soon as I receive the results.
No matter what happens, I’m grateful to be included on a list alongside so many respected partners in ministry.
I am especially excited to share this honor with some of my personal friends who I have learned from and served alongside over the years.
Congratulations, Crystal Bowman (I Love You to the Stars), Michelle Medlock Adams (They Call Me Mom: 52 Devotions for Every MOMent), Pam Farrel (Discovering Jesus in the Old Testament), and the beautifully diverse writers of the (in)courage ministry (Take Heart: 100 Devotions to Seeing God When Life’s Not Okay).
Please join me in praying for every author and publisher on this list and for those who are not on this list but are faithfully sharing God’s truth and love through Christian publishing. It is a pleasure and privilege to serve with you all!
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I thank the Lord for you, Blog Family!
I can do nothing without God or without your ongoing support, encouragement, prayers. I thank God for the opportunities He gives us to be rooted in His Word while growing with His people.
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Do You Really Believe God Loves You Unconditionally?
Suggested Reading: Luke 15:11-32
I grew up loved but feeling unlovable.
I didn’t think people could express love in different ways. I didn’t understand that wounded hearts didn’t really know how to show love in healthy ways. I didn’t even know that I was clueless when it came to showing love or recognizing and receiving love from others.
When I heard about God’s unconditional love, I immediately started looking for loopholes.
How could a good God love someone who was so far from good?
I’d read the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) countless times before I figured out that I’d been missing a big point in the story by only focusing on the main character ̶ the lost son.
As God drew my eyes toward the father in the story, I stepped back and looked at what the Lord chose to share before and after the story of the prodigal son.
When Jesus shared “The Parable of the Lost Sheep” with a crowd of “tax collectors and sinners,” the religious leaders criticized His choice to keep company with such riffraff. Jesus knew if they were ever going to get to that righteous sweet-spot, they would need to be in His personal space.
Jesus knew the religious leaders had grown accustomed to judging those who they considered too-far-gone to be invited into God’s Kingdom. The religious leaders must have plugged their ears when Jesus proclaimed “there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent” (v. 7).
In “The Parable of the Lost Coin” (vv.8-10), Jesus affirms each lost sinner is just as valuable and irreplaceable as the sinners who fluff their feathers and flock to prestigious religious events.
When Jesus introduced “The Parable of the Lost Son” (or the Prodigal Son), I focused on the biggest sinner in the story, the guy I could relate to most, the lost one, the messed up one, the one who knew he wasn’t worth a second chance.
But the father in this story had two nameless sons and I had no idea that I resembled both at different times in my life.
The younger son demanded and received his “share of the estate” from his father (v. 12).
For years, I read those words and bristled. Give me? Whose estate? Pause. Rewind. Does someone need a little home training? I know our sons wouldn’t dare demand we give them anything. (Let’s pause so I can adjust my crown of self-righteousness.)
After a while, God showed me how often I’d approached Him with similar demands. (Let’s pause so I can slip that crown of self-righteousness off and slink away with my head hanging low.)
Just like the father in the story, God didn’t let me wallow in shame or guilt. He turned my eyes to the father and helped me realize what I’d been missing for years.
Some parents understand the heartache of watching an adult child make decisions that we know will lead to painful and sometimes scarring consequences.
Some of us have held on so tight that we squeezed the life out of our beloved children.
Some of us have let go and watched the horizon, desperately praying for God to bring our prodigal children home before they hit rock bottom (vv. 13-16).
Some of us have even gone to retrieve our adult children when they discovered no one else wanted to help them.
Some of us have been rejected even after retrieving those adult children who suddenly realized they didn’t need us after we’d rescued them.
Like all rebellious souls, the lost son eventually had nothing left and nowhere to go. He “came to his senses” and realized that his father’s “hired servants” were living better than him (v. 17). He devised a plan, prepared a speech filled with begging and self-deprecation, and headed home (vv. 18-20).
“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him” (v. 20).
The father had been watching the road, expecting him to return, wanting to welcome him home.
I imagine the son reeked of sweat, dirt, pigs, and anything else he picked up along the way.
Did he fear rejection because of his filthy presence . . . or worse, his filthy past?
Did he consider cleaning himself up before returning to the father, making himself more presentable, proving he deserved receiving another chance?
How would the father respond to his son’s reeking, sin-scarred life?
Before the lost son could spill out his well-rehearsed speech, the father welcomed him home with joy (vv. 21-23). The father didn’t chastise him, demand an explanation, scrunch his nose at the stench that must have been quite ripe.
He began to celebrate (v. 24).
When his older son returned and heard the party in full swing (v. 25). He didn’t ask if his brother was okay or rush to see him. Scripture says he “refused” to go into the house . . . so his father “went out and pleaded with him” (v. 28).
He complained about the father’s grace toward his brother while ignoring the father’s grace toward him.
Blinded by bitterness, he listed the ways he’d been faithful to the father over the years and griped about the things he did not have (v. 29). He referred to his brother at arms-length, calling him “this son of yours” instead of my brother (v. 30).
Instead of chastising or rebuking the older son, the father affirmed the security of his inheritance, which would be of even greater value as time passed (v. 31). He encouraged his son to acknowledge the greater meaning of his brother’s return (v. 32).
The father valued both sons equally, not for what each did or didn’t do but for who they were born to be . . . his beloved children.
As I consider all of my sins, past and present and those yet to come, I know I am always desperately dependent on the Father’s goodness and unconditional love for me and my reeking, sin-scarred life.
My heart aches as I recognize my similarities to the lost son.
I’ve ended up knee-deep into the muddy fields of disobedience and self-indulgence when I wandered from my Father’s presence.
I’ve squandered the gifts He’s given me, made selfish demands, taken Him for granted.
I’ve doubted His unending grace and unconditional love.
My heart aches as I recognize my similarities to the older son.
I’ve compared my sins to the sins of others, as if comparison could make my offenses more acceptable.
I’ve been bitter when someone received grace after hurting me, even when I knew I’d be begging for grace if I was the one crawling back with nothing more to lose.
I’ve focused on what I didn’t have instead of thanking the Father for all He has given me and promised me.
I’ve forgotten that nobody needs to work a little harder or be a little better to be worth loving.
As we prepare for Good Friday, it’s important to recognize how God’s unconditional love led to Jesus hanging on that cross in Calvary.
He cleared the debt caused by our sins in full and in advance, so that we can have a new life in Him.
Jesus did all the work necessary for our redemption and reconciliation with the Father.
But our good, good Father will never try to force Himself on us.
He lets us go when we’re determined to be rebellious, but never leaves us alone or loses sight of us.
He understands we’ll be tempted to wander into the darkest corners of disobedience and disbelief but keeps reaching for us.
The Father loves us all equally, not for what we do or don’t do but for who we were born to be . . . His beloved children.
His unconditional love can heal raw wounds and soften old scars, transforming us into beacons of hope and using us to help others find their way home to Him.
When we grow accustomed to traveling the rocky roads of rebellion, seeping our hearts in resentment, bitterness, and fear, we can become trapped by the lies of comparison and works-based faith.
But as we celebrate how the Father proves His love for us in all three of the parables in Luke 15, we can take Him at His word and answer yes to this question:
Do you really believe God loves you unconditionally?
(Please pause to place the crown of life securely on your head as you shout or sing, “YES!”) James 1:12, Revelation 2:10
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Which brother in the parable do you most relate to and why?
When have you wandered from the Father’s presence?
How did you respond to God’s unconditional love upon your return?
When has it been difficult for you to believe God’s love and grace are freely given to you?
When have you compared your sins to the sins of another to justify rejecting them?
When have you refused to extend mercy toward someone else who returned to the Father’s loving embrace after a season of rebellion?
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Loving Father, thanks for reminding us that You are always with us and always ready to welcome us into Your loving embrace. Please bring all of Your lost ones home and help us to love them as You love us. Forgive us for the times we’ve tried to earn Your approval, work off our guilt or shame, or judge others for their sins as if our sins were more acceptable.
Please purify our hearts and our motives so we can build healthy and holy relationships with You and others. Give us the courage to come alongside one another as we invite You to transform us with the heart-healing power of Your infallible truth and unconditional love.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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What Does God Consider Priceless Worship?
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Suggested Reading – Mark 12:38-44
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As the woman’s words nestled into a deep crack in my scarred heart, I had no idea they would cripple my thinking for years.
Your work has no value. Your words are worthless.
When I closed my eyes, those messed-up mantras morphed into the real fear this woman’s cruelty stirred up.
You have no value. You are worthless, insignificant, inferior.
As I wrestled with discouragement, God gently nudged me to move forward in obedience, to keep sharing His truth and love to the ends of the earth.
God reminded me that only He could determine the worth of His creations and all they offered to Him through their faithful service and acts of worship.
Even though I was still writing with a limp caused by the wounding words of a person I barely knew, I started my Facebook Author Page and began sharing God’s truth and love through mini-devotions, prayers, and graphics.
In His loving and humorous way, the Lord encouraged me while I encouraged others who were battling discouragement or debilitating doubt.
No one should have to wonder if the love-offering they are placing into God’s hands is enough . . . if they are enough.
Writers are not the only ones who struggle with insecurities, doubts, and fears that can keep us from serving God courageously, faithfully, confidently, and obediently.
God has gifted His people according to His perfect plan and uses each of us according to His perfect pace.
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” (Ephesians 2:10, NIV)
So, if God created us and intended us to do the good works He planned for us in advance, then why would we wonder if what we have to offer Him is good enough?
As I considered this question, I thought of a poor widow in worn clothes walking through a crowd of rich people, adorned with jewels and New Testament name brand outfits.
Scripture says Jesus watched the people “putting their money into the temple treasury” (Mark 12:41, NIV). The widow “came and put in two very small coins, worth only a few cents” (v. 42).
The poor widow didn’t drag her feet, bow her head in shame, or peer over shoulders to compare her offering to anyone else’s gift.
She simply walked into the temple, prepared to give what she had already determined to give, and worshiped the Giver of all good things.
She minded her own business, because she remained focused on her Father’s business, and “put in everything ̶ all she had to live on” (v. 44).
Jesus made sure his disciples realized this poor widow had “put more into the treasury than all the others” (v. 43).
They didn’t have to be great mathematicians to realize God’s math doesn’t work like the numerical system of man.
Jesus didn’t say the offerings of the rich people were worthless, but that their offerings were worth less than the widow’s sacrificial gift.
Why?
Could it be the widow’s humble posture of confidence?
She didn’t care what anyone said about their perceived value of her gift.
She didn’t announce the sacrifice she made.
She didn’t seem to want any attention drawn toward herself, which is in stark contrast to the image of the “teachers of the law” that Jesus shared in Mark 12:38-40.
Jesus said they “like to walk around in flowing robes” and “have the most important seats,” using prayer as an opportunity to show out and show off. Their offerings may have been substantial in amount, but the substance of their hearts lacked compassion and humility (v. 40).
Jesus measures the motives of the givers, not the amount or type of the gifts offered.
Our loving Lord knows the deepest intentions of our hearts, whether we’re worshipping Him with a financial offering or by using the time or talents He’s entrusted to us so we can serve Him.
The person who prays for a hurting friend and the person who pays a hurting friend’s rent are both valuable.
The person who makes people feel loved with a smile and a kind word and the person who passes out meals to the homeless every holiday are both valuable.
The person who helps a neighbor in a practical way and the person who faithfully volunteers overseas or commits to a consistent schedule to impact their community are all valuable.
And yes, the person who shares a hefty sum of money, the person who shares a small sum of money, and the person who cannot contribute financially so they serve in another way to support God’s Kingdom work and help those in need . . . each of these people are valuable.
No gift is too small or too large to give in the name of Jesus and for the glory of Jesus when our focus is fixed on serving God and others.
So, what does God consider priceless worship?
Anything we willingly and cheerfully give to please Him, to show our gratitude for all He’s done and all He is, to express our total devotion to Him, to honor Him, and to shine a light on His sovereign goodness, faithfulness, and love.
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Committing to Truly Loving and Following Jesus
As I watch the divisions in the United States and within the Church widen, I cry out to the Lord.
My personal problems seem so small as I weep for the Church, asking God to reveal my wickedness, to purify my heart and mind so I can live in alignment with His life-transforming truth and love.
Still, I’m wrestling with God as I witness hate infesting communities and dividing people.
I watch in disbelief as well-known Christian leaders, blinded by idolatry, add checkmarks on evil’s scorecard by condoning, excusing, minimizing, and contributing to the sins that make folks want to run from Jesus instead of to Him.
I don’t want to drive people away from Jesus.
I don’t want to stray from Jesus, either.
So, I began to ask God a simple question:
How can I truly love and follow Jesus?
My search led me back to the basics.
“Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.” (1 John 4:20)
Jesus Himself said that loving Him is synonymous to obeying Him (John 14:15). He clearly declares the theme of love with the greatest commandment, too:
“Love the Lord your God with all you heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” (Matthew 22:37-40)
As I studied Scripture, I began to realize that truly loving and following Jesus results in the Spirit-empowered obedience to sacrificially love our neighbors as we love ourselves.
Selfless and sacrificial love protects “our neighbors,” all the people God created and loves, more fiercely than we protect our earthly rights, our biased opinions, our political beliefs and affiliations, our traditions, and our need to be right instead of being right with God.
Christ followers cannot love sacrificially or selflessly if we’re content with cowering in the dark corners of our comfort zones, hiding behind apathy, indifference, or approval through silence to avoid conflict or criticism.
In the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), Jesus commends the Good Samaritan for having mercy on his fellow man and commands His disciples to “go and do likewise” (v. 37).
Oh, Lord. Forgive me! Change me and make me more like You, merciful Jesus.
How often have I chosen the sin of indifference, refusing to love someone with my words, actions, thoughts, and attitudes?
How often have I chosen the sin of idolatry, placing myself above You and everyone else?
The more I studied the Bible, the more I discovered God’s repeated emphasis on loving our neighbors as a commandment not an option:
“If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself,’ you are doing right. But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers.” (James 2:8-9)
When we choose to truly love and follow Jesus, we can begin a wave of healing that ripples through our homes and into our communities, in person and online.
We may not experience physical restoration of a relationship or guarantee an offender’s change of heart when we’re the ones forgiving and choosing to love, but we can rely on God’s just and merciful love to work in and through the most painful circumstances.
Though the road toward change and healing will not be easy or short, our mission as Christ followers is clear.
If we say we love Jesus, we are commanded to love all people as Jesus loves us ̶ selflessly and sacrificially ̶ because He first loved us (1 John 4:19).
As we live for Jesus and love like Jesus, we can draw people to the hope we have in Christ and make disciples of all nations by being true examples of disciples of Christ (Matthew 28:16-20).
Love will always prevail because our victorious God Himself is love.
But as I cry out to Jesus today, I’m praying He’ll change my heart and transform my thinking so that I can prevail by living a victorious life in Christ ̶ truly loving and following Jesus, which will be evident in the ways I love others who are different from me, who believe differently than me, and even those who refuse to love me back.
What a glorious day it will be when God uses our loving obedience, our genuine and selfless love for Him and others, to draw others closer to Him, to inspire others to dig deeper into His Word, and to encourage others to delight in His love as they enter into His eternal Kingdom!
Hallelujah!
Lord, thank You for loving us, forgiving us, and empowering us to love and forgive others. As we watch the atrocities unfolding right before our eyes and grieve over the blatant hatred destroying lives, it is ever apparent that we need You, Lord.
Please reveal our wickedness so we can repent, turn away from our sins, and represent You while living as foreigners on this earth.
Help us place offenders in Your hands, so that we can be freed to make a difference in our world by refusing to be indifferent.
As we rest in the surety of Your constant presence, give us all we need to seek peace, celebrate diversity as we stand in unity, and love selflessly, sacrificially, and generously all the days of our lives, starting today.
In Jesus’s name, Amen.
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Who, besides Jesus, loved you into the Kingdom of God?
The Lord used so many people to love me as He prepared my heart to surrender to Him. However, I would like to thank Ms. Virginia, Winona, Barbara P., Cendy, and Miriam for loving me like Jesus before I’d even seen a “real Bible,” and while I was deliberately unloving and unlovable.
Who is God asking you to love into His Kingdom as you share the Gospel with them?
How are you loving Jesus by loving others in the against injustice?
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Give the Gift of Radical Forgiveness for Christmas
(Suggested Reading: Luke 23:32-43)
As Christmas approaches and our world continues seeking some sense of normalcy during this pandemic, some people are not social distancing from family because of the virus. Some are grieving over unresolved family conflicts. Some have given up on broken relationships long before the pandemic. And some are licking their wounds and widening divisions over differing opinions on masks, politics, and tension caused by racism and an idolatrous sense of nationalism.
Instead of singing carols about Jesus’ birth, some are crushing hearts with careless words and graphics shared on social media.
Not many of us can escape the crossfire.
The enemy doesn’t have to work hard to divide God’s people when we do most of the legwork work for him.
As I prayerfully prepared to write this Christmas article multiple times, I couldn’t get past the first paragraph. After a few personal attacks I endured over the last year , I’d allowed resentment and bitterness to take root in my heart.
How could I write about celebrating the birth of Christ if I couldn’t obey the Greatest Commandment ̶ to love God and to love my neighbor as I love myself?
The Bible clearly explains God’s command to love our neighbors includes all people who are created in His image no matter what their beliefs, differences, or sins.
When I truly love my neighbors, I’ll treat them as Jesus would treat them.
It’s easy to love the kind neighbors, the neighbors who agree with me, who encourage me, who understand me, who stick up for me, who don’t rub me the wrong way.
But Jesus calls me to love the neighbors who need the most grace, the neighbors who are as depraved and dependent on God’s mercy as I am.
How can I do this if I allow pride and hurt to fester until gaps of resentment, bitterness, and unforgiveness feel too wide and too deep to repair?
I cried out to God, trying to justify the list of people I had tucked in the dark corners of my unforgiving heart. “What do You want me to do, Lord?”
Forgive.
But I’m angry.
Forgive.
But I’m tired of forgiving when there seems to be no remorse, no repentance, no willingness to listen to learn or even empathize.
Forgive.
But I’m still hurt.
Forgive.
But I’m afraid to get hurt again.
Forgive.
As I wrestled with God, He reminded me of the countless times He’d extended undeserved mercy toward me and led me to Luke 23:32-43.
While Jesus hung on the cross, He willingly submitted to the nails that pierced His hands and feet. As an atonement for my sins, He paid the insurmountable debt my wickedness earned.
What does this have to do with Christmas?
Our loving Savior intended on offering us radical forgiveness before He left His heavenly throne, put on flesh, and allowed Himself to be wrapped in swaddling cloth and placed in a manger.
During Christ’s earthly ministry, He had countless reasons to hold grudges, to become bitter, to seek revenge, to refuse to forgive . . . especially when He chose to endure the suffering on the cross.
But as He looked on the ones who cheered for His execution‒those who mocked the King of Kings without remorse or repentance‒Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34, NIV).
The ones Jesus loved, the ones Jesus asked the Father to forgive weren’t remorseful . . . at all.
In Total Forgiveness, R.T. Kendall states that “[asking] the Father to forgive them showed that not only had [Jesus] forgiven them and released them from their guilt, but also that He asked His Father not to punish them or take revenge on them . . .” (p. 3).
Though I’ve read this book over half a dozen times and have read through the Bible yearly since 2005, I still choke up when I consider the words Jesus cried out while hanging, bruised and bloody, on the cross . . . paying the price for my sins.
Am I truly willing to love with such selflessness?
Are you?
When we think of Jesus in the manger, we cannot forget Jesus on the cross.
So this year, would you join me in asking God to help us give the gift of radical forgiveness for Christmas?
No more pleas for payback.
No more daydreams of dishing out a cold bowl of revenge.
No more harboring resentment.
When we ask God to help us release our offenders into His loving and merciful hands, we can trust Him to work in and through their lives as He continues working in and through our lives.
The more we pray blessings over our offenders, the more God helps us see them through His eyes of loving grace . . . and the more peace reigns in our hearts.
When we offer radical forgiveness, we’re not condoning, minimizing, or even forgetting an offense. God is righteous and just. He is full of compassion and understands our need to process, heal, and sometimes close the door on a relationship.
But when we place the offense and the offender into God’s trustworthy hands, we no longer have to carry burdens that don’t belong to us.
We can choose victorious freedom through right relationships with God and others instead of insisting on being right, gloating in someone else’s remorsefulness, or demanding apologies before forgiving.
As imperfect humans in desperate need of our Savior and Redeemer Jesus Christ, we will need to forgive others and ask for forgiveness all the days of our lives. We’ll need prayer and encouragement every step of the way.
Radical forgiveness requires an ongoing commitment to surrender to the Holy Spirit but begins with the choice to love Jesus and love others like Jesus loves us.
Will you give the gift of radical forgiveness for Christmas this year?
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Lord, thank You for forgiving us and for empowering us to forgive. Please prepare our hearts to receive and submit to Your truth and love. Show us our wickedness and lead us into the way everlasting (Psalm 139:23-24). Help us recognize, confess, repent, and turn away from our sins. Please help us reconcile, even if restoration of a relationship isn’t possible, as we embrace the peace and freedom of living in radical forgiveness. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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I ordered a revised and updated copy of Total Forgiveness by R.T. Kendall, a book God has used to help me understand what forgiveness is and isn’t, as well as what He says about forgiveness in the Bible.
I’ll be reading Total Forgiveness as I read through the Bible in a year with the Our Daily Bread Ministries reading schedule, which is posted with each day’s devotion starting on January 1, 2021.
Please let me know if you are going to join me in reading Total Forgiveness and/or if you are going to join me in reading through the Bible in 2021, which only take 15 minutes per day (30-45 minutes if you read slow like me).
I look forward to growing with you!
Merry Christmas!
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To inhale God’s truth, exhale prayers and praises, and rest in God’s presence, please join me for Pause for Prayer: Thriving through the Wait by subscribing to my new YouTube Channel today.
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When We Can’t Seem to Catch a Break from Life’s Hardships
I didn’t even notice when the complaints started overtaking my thoughts.
Expected stress accompanied our move from Wisconsin back to California, but unexpected disappointments increased my grumbling capacity.
After hunkering down in a hotel for the first three weeks as we searched for a rental, we finally found a new apartment. Third floor. No elevators. Community living definitely required a few adjustments, physically, mentally, and emotionally.
The furniture dealer didn’t deliver our recliners on the promised date. My struggles with pain management escalated as I adjusted to working with a new doctor. The perfect Thanksgiving feast I expected with both of our sons ended up being a quiet meal with our youngest son and his fiancé.
As the list of things that went wrong and things that did not go as I expected grew, my negativity nourished my complaining spirit.
I snuggled Callie and pouted as I prayed.
Can we catch a break from the hardships, Lord?
In His loving patience, God gently turned my eyes back to His Word.
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
How am I supposed to rejoice or give thanks in these difficult circumstances, Lord?
On the surface, rejoicing felt impossible and giving thanks felt fake.
Until I took a closer look at what the apostle Paul was saying to the church of Thessalonica.
When I read each phrase separately, I missed the point.
I couldn’t rejoice always unless I prayed continually, which would lead to giving thanks in all circumstances.
When I focused on God, not myself or the temporary circumstances that affected me on this side of eternity, I could experience the biblical meaning of joy.
Acknowledging God’s constant presence helped me recognize the ways He was working in and through my life, in and through my relationships, and even in and through my trials and suffering.
My prayers became more focused on God, on His promises and His faithful goodness.
As His truth cleared my vision, I remembered all the Lord had done during my transition.
God had answered my prayers by allowing us to move from Wisconsin back to California.
He provided the funds for us to hunker down in a hotel with excellent customer service and given me plenty of opportunities to share His truth and love with the staff and fellow patrons.
Though many families were displaced by the fires and the pandemic, God led us to a gated community that would be safer for me to walk Callie when I wasn’t feeling well. My service dog learned how to navigate those three flights of stairs quickly.
Our furniture didn’t arrive before the holiday, but the Lord provided two temporary chairs that I could use for video interviews after the pandemic.
My struggles with pain management didn’t improve, but my family and countless prayer warriors continued supporting me.
On Thanksgiving, I video chatted with my amazing niece and nephew (Eliza and Emmett) before enjoying a tasty meal with our youngest son and his fiancé.
As the list of things that went wrong and things that did not go as I expected took back-seat to the blessings God showered over me, my capacity for rejoicing increased.
I stopped pouting and practiced the privilege of interceding for friends who were hurting, which helped me view my complaints with an eternal rather than an internal perspective.
Life isn’t going as any of us expected in 2020. But not one moment surprised God or threw him off His game plan.
Though we may not always feel like smiling or cheering, we can experience joy that supersedes our ever-changing circumstances when we rest in the center of God’s will for us ̶ an unceasing and intimate connection with Him, our unlimited source of strength, peace, hope, and joy.
Counting our blessings as we wait on God may sound trite, but I’ve learned it’s hard to keep grumbling when my heart begins bubbling up with gratitude.
Faithful Father, please help us to recognize and rejoice over every blessing that comes through being intimately connected with You.
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What is the hardest part about viewing life with an eternal perspective when faced with difficult circumstances?
How has God blessed you in the midst of a tough season or situation?
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For more biblical encouragement and Scripture-based prayers, check out Pause for Prayer: Thriving through the Wait, a video series on my brand-new YouTube channel. Here is the link to Episode 1: God Holds Us.
Pause for Prayer: Thriving through the Wait Video Series Begins Today
I’m excited to announce the second season of Pause for Prayer: Thriving through the Wait, which you can find on my new YouTube channel.
I need 100 subscribers before I can receive a custom YouTube channel.
If you enjoy my videos, please help me beat that goal by subscribing to my YouTube channel and encouraging others to do the same. Thanks in advance for your prayers and support. I can do nothing without God or your ongoing encouragement.
From November 21, 2020 to December 21, 2020, I’ll be sharing new videos daily on YouTube that can stand alone or be used as you read the thirty-one chapters of Waiting for God: Trusting Daily in God’s Plan and Pace.
During each Pause for Prayer video (5-15 minutes each), we’ll dig deeper into God’s Word, seeking to know Him and trust Him with every moment of the wait.
I’ll be reading selected Bible verses, offering biblical encouragement, and leading a Scripture-based prayer as I explore the challenges, the purposes, and the rewards of waiting.
As we continue trusting God with every moment of our lives, we can walk with confidence in His character, His truth, and His love as we thrive through the wait.
To watch Pause for Prayer: Thriving through the Wait Day 1, November 21, 2020, please click here.
To watch Time to Grow, a message I shared during an Our Daily Bread Ministries chapel time on May 20, 2020, please click here.
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I have wonderful news to share, too.
Waiting for God: Trusting Daily in God’s Plan and Pace was awarded second place in the Selah Awards, hosted by the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference, and placed as a finalist in the Cascade Awards, hosted by the Oregon Christian Writers Conference.
To God be the glory!
I enjoyed a wonderful time of fellowship with the sisters who joined me for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait.
I’m thanking God for every person who participated.
Special thanks to my fellow author and speaker Mabel Ninan, who facilitated the chat and organized the giveaways, and my wonderful sister in Christ, Amy, who took Callie for her morning walk so I could reserve my strength.
Congratulations to the recipients of the five exclusive giveaways I offered during the event: Becky Heartsfield, Kathryn Robinson, Tamara Glover, Dora Jean Benson, and Carmen Perez.
Some of you have asked how you can pray for me and how you can support me as I continue sharing God’s truth and love to the ends of the earth.
I’ll need your help spreading the word so I can keep spreading God’s Word.
How can you serve alongside me?
- PRAY and praise the Lord with me daily!
- Subscribe to my blog (link on my home page) and my YouTube channel.
- Connect with me on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter (links on my home page).
- If you enjoy a blog post, a graphic, a social media post, or a video, please share those links on your social media platforms.
- When you share a post, tag me so I can give you a shout-out and interact with your family and friends in the comment section.
- If you’ve read Waiting for God or Different Like Me, please write a short review on Amazon then share the link to purchase Waiting for God and/or Different Like Me.
- If God encouraged you through any of my speaking events or writing workshops, please let me know so I can share your testimony/comments on my speaker page.
I’m looking forward to being rooted in God’s Word as we grow closer to Him and each other over the next few weeks.
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Last Day to Register for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait (FREE Live Women’s Zoom Event with Xochitl Dixon)
Are you feeling tired, frustrated, discouraged, stuck, lonely, or simply longing for a deeper connection with God and other women?
If you answered yes, you are not alone.
Please PRE-REGISTER for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait by Friday, November 13, 2020 at 8 pm (Pacific).
If you pre-register and attend this FREE LIVE WOMEN’S ZOOM EVENT, you will be eligible for a chance to receive one of two signed copies of Waiting for God, or one of two copies of God Hears Her, an Our Daily Bread bestselling compilation.
You will also be eligible for a chance to receive the Mega-Giveaway, which will include: a signed copy of Waiting for God, a copy of God Hears Her, and a signed copy of my first children’s picture book, Different Like Me, with some fun swag.
I look forward to connecting with you after the message.
Father God, please prepare our hearts to hear from You and surrender every aspect of the wait into Your capable and compassionate hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Flourish: Thriving through the Wait
Saturday, November 14, 2020 Agenda
Check-In: 9:45 am to 10 am (Pacific)
Welcome and Message: 10 am – 10:45 am (Pacific)
Fellowship and Giveaways: 10:45 am – 11:30 am (Pacific)
Closing Prayer: 11:30 am (Pacific)
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If you registered in the month of October or before for Flourish through the FBCVV Women’s Ministry, you do not need to register again.
If you haven’t registered yet, please click HERE and fill out the form.
Registrants will receive the Zoom link and instruction via email and will automatically be entered for a chance to receive one of the exclusive giveaways I’ll be offering during this FREE LIVE Women’s Zoom Event.
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I will be recording Flourish: Thriving through the Wait for those who are unable to join me for this event. Stay tuned for more details on this blog and on social media. If you haven’t joined my blog family yet, please visit my home page and subscribe today.
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Exciting Change of Venue for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait
Due to unforeseen circumstances, the First Baptist Church Vacaville Women’s Ministry will no longer be hosting Flourish: Thriving through the Wait on their Facebook LIVE page.
But God . . . Hallelujah . . . God quickly affirmed that nothing would stop me from sharing the message He’s placed on my heart to share with you.
If you registered in the month of October or before for Flourish through the FBCVV Women’s Ministry, the lovely leadership team has already given me your contact information.
You do not need to register again. You will receive the Zoom link via email so you can join me for this spirit-refreshing time of worship, fellowship, biblical encouragement, and prayer.
If you haven’t registered yet, please click HERE and fill out the form.
You will receive the Zoom link and instruction via email. All registrants will automatically be entered for a chance to receive one of the exclusive giveaways I’ll be offering during this FREE LIVE Zoom Event.
That’s right! FREE LIVE Zoom Event!
As I prayed over the change of venue, the Lord nudged me to make this event more personal.
I am looking forward to connecting with you via Zoom on November 14, 2020 from 10 am to 11:30 am (Pacific).
After the message, we’ll connect and celebrate with some fun giveaways.
Here is the original invitation with more details:
Are you feeling tired, frustrated, discouraged, stuck, lonely, or simply longing for a deeper connection with God and other women?
If you answered yes, you are not alone.
Please join me for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait.
We’ll enjoy a spirit-refreshing time of worship, fellowship, biblical encouragement, and prayer as God equips us to thrive through the wait with our hope, joy, peace, and our identities rooted in His unchanging and infallible Word.
If you pre-register and attend the FREE LIVE ZOOM EVENT, you will be eligible for a chance to receive one of two signed copies of Waiting for God, or one of two copies of God Hears Her, an Our Daily Bread bestselling compilation.
The grand prize will include: a signed copy of Waiting for God, a copy of God Hears Her, and a signed copy of my first children’s picture book, Different Like Me, with some fun swag.
Register for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait today!
If you cannot make it to this FREE LIVE Zoom Event on November 14th, I still want to connect with you in the comment sections on my blog and on social media.
I will be recording Flourish to share as the kick-off video for my brand-new YouTube Channel, as I prepare to present the second season of Pause for Prayer.
On November 21, 2020, you’re invited to Pause for Prayer: The Waiting for God Video Series.
This stand-alone series, designed to complement the 31 chapters in my devotional, Waiting for God: Trusting Daily in God’s Plan and Pace, will include Scripture reading, biblical encouragement, and prayers.
You do not need to purchase a copy of Waiting for God to enjoy this season of Pause for Prayer videos.
Join me on November 14, 2020 for Flourish: Thriving through the Wait and for Pause for Prayer, from November 21, 2020 to December 21, 2020.
I’ll share more information on this blog and through my social media pages.
If you haven’t connected with me on social media, please check out the links in the purple section at the bottom of my website pages.
I’m so excited to see what the Lord has in store for us!
Father God, thanks for assuring us that You have a purpose for every second we spend waiting for You. Please align our hearts with Yours and fill us with wisdom, courage, and confidence rooted in Your Word and Your proven faithfulness.
When the days feel way too long, fuel our perseverance with Your enduring hope. When the road ahead is covered in a fog of frustration, discouragement, loneliness, impatience, selfishness, fear, insecurities, or doubt, clear our vision and sharpen our hearing so we can discern Your directions.
Help us recognize our desperate need for You as we submit to the plan and pace You’ve set for our growth and our good. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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SPECIAL EVENT: If you want to join me in reading through Waiting for God: Trusting Daily in God’s Plan and Pace while we enjoy the Pause for Prayer: Waiting for God Video Series, I’ll be hosting a book discussion and prayer time on Tuesday, December 22, 2020 at 6 pm (Pacific).
I’ll share the registration information on my blog and on social media soon.
Love your neighbors by ordering extra copies to share as gifts on Amazon, at Barnes and Nobel, from Our Daily Bread Publishing, or on the Christian Book website today.
If you’ve read Waiting for God: Trusting Daily in God’s Plan and Pace, please prayerfully consider writing a short review on Amazon and any other review platforms you enjoy so we can reach more readers with this empowering message of hope.
Thanks for your loving support and encouragement!
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